Open Up Yourself? It is not That Bad

Hi everybody! Now I want to express my thought by writing here about "Open Up Yourself? It is not That Bad". Well as you now, I'm trying to write in English, just for practice, and please correct me if there is any sentence that I wrote wrong. ;)

Have you ever felt that when you are entering new environment, new people, for example when you entering new workplace, new place for living, new school, new class and other that there is sooooo many people that you don't know their names. And what's the first thing that you do? Get acquainted with the friends that sitting beside you (just two friends) and continue doing your job, or you will get acquainted with the whooooole people in that room, in that environment? Which one are you? 

Well I know that, some of you is kind of people who can't easily interact with new people. On the other hand, there is a person that will say : "Why we are shy? It's really easy to interact with new people" and we called them as "extrovert" one. Okay, for you who is easily interact with new people, just skip my writing (huahha :'D). And for you who is hard to interact, let's sharing!

So, when I was entering my new environment (new class) I get acquainted with the friends beside me. But not with the whole class. My position as the youngest student at that time, make me thought: "I can't interact with them, I'm the junior here", "I can't interact with them, because they will think I was a hyperactive one" (or SKSD in Indo language) or "They will thought me as the apple polishing" (I googled it cause Idk the english of cari muka :'D). Actually, when I came at the class I felt a little awkward, yheah because I'm a "new" in their environment, and I just attend my class without talking to other new friends, I just talked to the friend besides me.

The third day I attend the class, while there's a break time, one friend told me that "hei, why you don't try to get acquainted with others?", it will be better to know each other they said, and you could make new friends, not just attending class and doing your work and then going home. Actually, I really really really want to know each other, but, like I was told you in the third paragraph before, that thought makes me think like "ahh, I'm so awkward because I'm the junior here and etc". So, after a long process of thinking about how to introduce myself to them, I braved myself to introduce me one by one to the whole class. So many kind of response I got, but in the end, they are very welcome with me and we become closer even thought not too close (I told you it need time). At least, for this time I felt more comfortable to attend the class, and the whole class also more welcome to me than the first time I attend the class.

So, that's the story. So friends, the things that I want to share are : When you are the new people in an environment, don't feel scared to get acquainted with other new friends, because you can't do your job comfortably by just standing alone without want to know each other. And the important one is : surely the other people also very welcome to you when you are trying to get acquainted, they maybe could become your best friend, you don't know about that. So, just TRYING OPEN UP YOURSELF first so you can enlarge your connection :D *the good one of course.

Please share in the comment if you have any experiance about this, thankyou!

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